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You are okay !

You are okay ! 

You will be okay ! 

Maybe the outcome is not what makes you feel okay .
Maybe the expectations of the outcome were different. Things don't always work out the way we want them to. But it is a fleeting moment or everything we have around us is momentary . Clichéd  but true - Change is the only constant . This overwhelming feeling with change too .
You are okay and maybe you have to realign and adjust when things dont according to plan .
You are okay and you will be okay .
You will always be okay .
This situation is temporary. 
Acceptance of what it is . 
You may not be in a life situation that you wanted to be , but you are okay . It is disappointing and it is hard , but it will pass .
You have your flaws and you are perfect. Perfect in the eyes of many , maybe you dont see it now . But you will. 
Self acceptance is what you can do for yourself.
Self acceptance outside of the judgements .The judgements of yourself and others .
For a minute - disconnect from the judgements.
And you are going to be OKAY .
Perfection is overrated and subjective. You dont have to be perfect .
Maybe you just need to be Okay. 

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